Parents

Parents are a very important resource for helping girls to cope with relational aggression and to develop skills to foster positive alliances and friendships. Some ways you can help:

  • Offer support and empathy when your daughter feels hurt or alone.
  • Manage your own reactions to her situation so that you don’t make things worse.
  • Model and reinforce healthy relationship skills.
  • Teach and practice constructive skills for dealing with anger, jealousy, or insecurity.
  • Help her find activities and resources which develop her skills and confidence.
  • Encourage her to critique and challenge media influences which convey limiting or distorted roles for girls and women.